How much should I spend on a Mother's Day gift?

Anywhere from $20 to 50 is normal range for most relationships. Above 50 starts to feel performative for most categories, except an anchor gift like a major garden statue or a piece of jewelry, where higher amounts can make sense. Below $20 is fine if it's clearly thoughtful (handmade card, framed photo).

What about a mom who 'doesn't want anything'?

She usually does, she just doesn't want clutter or obligation. Pick something consumable (her favorite tea, a flower delivery) or experiential (lunch out, a movie night together). Or one quality keepsake, small, meaningful, displayable.

Can I give the same gift to my mom and my mother-in-law?

Risky. They might compare, and even if both are gracious, you've signaled you batched the relationships. Give different gifts, even if both are from the same category (e.g., a 'Mom' stone for your mom and a 'Grandma' stone for your MIL).

What about Mother's Day for a partner who is a new mom?

First Mother's Day deserves something specifically marking the new role, 'first Mother's Day' keepsake, photo book of baby's first year, a memorable piece of jewelry. Don't just give a generic mom gift; this one is its own milestone.

When should I send a long-distance Mother's Day gift?

Order at least 10 days before the holiday for standard ground shipping, 5 days for expedited. The week before Mother's Day is the single busiest gift-shipping week of the year, same-day shipping cutoffs are unforgiving. Order early.

Mother's Day Gifts for Specific Relationships: Beyond Generic 'Mom' Gifts